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#1 Be clear with your Future
If you are from nuclear family
and know that you can’t adjust in a joint one then get this straight, because
no matter how much you try, it won’t be easy settling in. Make sure you discuss
this before say yes to him. If your parents are old and need support, take the
front seat and discuss your plans with him, make him understand your
insecurities and then take the next step.
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#2 Discuss your Finances
In Indian society, most of us
ignore this topic and forget getting into the detail. It’s only after marriage
that we get to know how things are going to work. You are self-dependent woman;
make sure you discuss this topic. Ask will you both have joint account or will
go with the separate ones. Who pays the rent/bill etc. all these topics needs
to be discuss with patience.
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#3 Kids or not!
Well, it may sound funny to you.
Maybe you don’t want them soon, but he wants. So, it’s better to discuss then
to get this shock after marriage. Discuss how many kids you want and how soon.
And together figure it out. Plus don’t make it a bond, just go with the flow.
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#4 Career bhi important hai!
In all the excitement and
nervousness, we almost forget to discuss career. There are chances that your
man’s family doesn’t want a working dulhan. So, discuss it before you
are ready to tie the knot your work aspirations and all.
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#5 ‘Fashion Talk’
By this we mean, you need to discuss
your fashion sense with your man to be, before things take another step. Maybe
your husband’s family are not to open to see their daughter-in-law in skirts
and western wear and you love it. So, discuss it before and make him understand
your choices and all.
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